I have always wanted to make a home and raise my babies . . . full-time . . . and nothing else. When Lily was first born we weren't sure this was going to be a reality for our new little family. It is not something that works for every family; both financially or for the sanity of a mommy. But it is something I've always wanted. In fact, on my very first date with Kevin I told him that all I've ever wanted to do was to be at home raising my children to love the Lord.
Through some planning, much prayer, and a wonderfully supportive husband, starting tomorrow I will be home with our Lily Bug.I'm not going to lie, it was ultimately an easy decision. It was however, not easy to leave CBU. I came to Riverside in 1999 to attend California Baptist University and through a friend and my sister, I got a job as a student worker in the financial aid office. In January 2003, I started full-time as the receptionist, got stuck and somehow became the associate director. It is really the only place I have ever worked; except for the 6 weeks at the Cold Stone in Kihei, Maui. I like financial aid. I liked the technical side. I loved writing reports and sorting and filtering spreadsheets! But I love my husband and my daughter more and I am excited for what is to come.
I gave my notice on January 3rd, and this past Friday the ladies in the office gave me a beautiful send off. There was a small cake reception with a giant cake. Lots of people came by to give their well wishes. I felt so loved and appreciated.


Here is Kevin modeling my new apron and matching spatulas.

CBU is full of wonderful people, many of who I will miss, but the ladies of Financial Aid have been my world. In the past eight years I have finished school, gotten married, travelled the world, bought my first home, and started my family; and these women have celebrated each milestone with me. I love them dearly and will miss them terribly.
But new and exciting things are on their way. I am so excited to see what happens next!
Yay, Bekah I am so glad you have the opportunity to stay home with Lily!
ReplyDeletewhoa! how exciting for you! I'm so glad your dreams get to come true... welcome to the full time, crazy life of a sahm :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post; I hope you'll be able to share it with Lily some day.
ReplyDeleteI remember my time working in financial aid fondly, and much of that is because I got to work with you! I remember running to the mall on lunch breaks, constantly re-filling sodas from Wanda's, scrounging for chocolate (although it never took much searching), and sharing a drink back at the apartments after particularly stressful days. We made a neat little (albeit dysfunctional) family.
That said, I'm so glad that you get to focus your energy on raising Lily to be a lovely woman. She's fortunate. Love you!
SO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats Bekah! How wonderful :)
ReplyDeleteEnjoy! It is the best and most sobering full-time job you can have.
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